(In the voice of Sofia from the Golden Girls)— Picture it, North St. Louis, 2015. It seemed like a normal day at the St. Louis P&G Plant—lots of fires to put out, lots of rushing around, personnel issues to deal with, line mechanical issues to fix—the norm. On that particular day, I was 5 months preggo & feeling some serious morning sickness. I hadn’t had this level of queasiness in a couple months, so I was struggling with functioning at work. But, since it was so hectic and stressful, I just kept “willing down“ the need to puke all morning.
Around noon, my husband (whom I almost never saw at work) walked up to me and asked me how I was feeling. This was unusual… well, because he never asks me feeling-questions like this. I tell him I’m fine, and ask him why he’s asking me. He tells me how he’s puked twice already at work, and suspects that he’s gotten a bug from our germy toddler. I then realize that my nauseousness is also probably connected to this same bug, and rush to the bathroom for some unpleasantries. Once I cleaned myself up, I tell my husband we need to leave and to meet me at the car ASAP.
We leave the plant within minutes, both of us looking green, and neither of us being able to hold our heads up straight. Just before getting on 270 I yell, “PULL OVER!!!” As he pulls onto the shoulder we both open our doors and projectile vomit out of both sides of the car. Can you imagine the visual we made there? Too bad we didn’t get to make a video for TikTok with that one! Anywho, we made it home, and he immediately took some Pepto and slept peacefully for the next 24 hours. I, on the other hand, was pregnant and therefore couldn’t take Pepto… so I continued to puke my brains out for the rest of the day. I’m a cryer-puker, so I was just physically and emotionally drained. Then, as if the non-stop-crying-puking wasn’t enough, this horrific illness kicked my body into contractions. Of course then I was even more stressed and sick and drained.
At some point after midnight I fell asleep with puke-covered clothes, puke-breath, puke stuck in my sweaty hair, which was of course stuck to my face.
It was horrible.
Horrific.
My body was sore for 48 hours afterwards.
I wouldn’t wish a strong stomach bug/flu on my worst enemy.
But… we all expect illness.
We all expect germs.
We all expect death.
Or so I thought.
Until 2020.
Until COVID.
Even with the horrendous symptoms I survived that day, I would never suggest locking down our country to protect folks from it. I am having the hardest time understanding why any human thinks this could possibly be the correct path in life—-locking down the world.
I hear friends and family argue with my points, by stating “This is for the common good, just wear a mask and stay home. This is something we can control. Something we can do for the greater good. Stay Home, Save Lives.”
Well, my question back to you all is, if the logic on lockdowns is—“This is a bad virus, and we want to keep people safe”—then where do we draw the line on freedom restrictions of grown-arse adults capable of making decisions on their own.
I mean, driving isn’t safe; we have 38,000 deaths per year—-so do we stop driving? Get rid of everyone’s cars, licenses, ability to personally transport themselves around.
Drinking isn’t safe; we have 95,000 deaths per year—do we outlaw drinking? Time to kick back up the times of prohibition? Sounds fun, right?
Smoking isn’t safe; we have 480,000 deaths per year —-do we outlaw smoking? I personally am not a fan of smoking, but are we ready as a community to start handing out misdemeanors for lighting one up? This number of deaths is almost double the COVID deaths per year, so how can we just continue to allow people to CHOOSE to smoke?
Abortions are our intentional decision to end life, and we do that 621,000 each year? Any concerns here, or do these not count as deaths? Just trying to follow the rationale here.
To further my point, I did a little research on the CDC website. Below are the number of annual deaths for leading causes of death in the US:
• Heart disease: 655,381
• Cancer: 599,274
• Accidents (unintentional injuries): 167,127
• Chronic lower respiratory diseases: 159,486
• Stroke: 147,810
• Alzheimer’s disease: 122,019
• Diabetes: 84,946
• Influenza and Pneumonia: 59,120
• Nephritis, nephrotic syndrome and nephrosis: 51,386
• Intentional self-harm (suicide): 48,344
So let’s just analyze a few of these common death causes.
The most common death cause is heart disease, and the most common causes of heart disease are unhealthy diet, lack of exercise, being overweight, and smoking. So, with the logic of “for the better good, we must keep people safe”, we should:
• Require anyone that is obese to get on a weight management plan.
• Have a mandatory daily exercise requirement.
• Ban fast food. I mean, if we didn’t have it, people wouldn’t eat it right?
• Make smoking illegal, for sure.
• We can control these actions, so shouldn’t we?
• This is life and death after all, right?
The 2nd most common death cause is cancer, and the most common causes of cancer is tobacco use. So, with the logic of “for the better good, we must keep people safe”, we should:
• Again, make smoking illegal, for sure.
• This is life and death after all, right?
The 4th most common death cause is chronic lower respiratory disease, and the most common cause of chronic lower respiratory disease is tobacco use. So, with the logic of “for the better good, we must keep people safe”, we should:
• Yup, I said it before, and I’ll say it again, make smoking illegal, for sure.
• This is life and death after all, right?
• Ain’t looking too good for the tobacco farmers, is it?
For the 5th and 7th most common death causes (stroke and diabetes), the most common causes include obesity, high cholesterol, high blood pressure, smoking. So, with the logic of “for the better good, we must keep people safe”, we should:
• Get rid of all foods that cause high cholesterol.
• Require anyone that is obese to get on a weight management plan.
• Have a mandatory daily exercise requirement.
• Ban fast food. I mean, if we didn’t have it, people wouldn’t eat it right?
• Make smoking illegal, for sure.
• This is life and death after all, right?
• I gotta tell you, I am getting pretty excited to start up my “Lindsey Daily Fitness Livestream Group” with all these mandated restrictions.
I think you might be getting my point, but let’s hit Alzheimer’s and Suicide while we are here. Alzheimer deaths are most commonly affected by age—- so what should we do for 65 year olds? Your risk is so much higher at that age? Not sure where to start there? Corral all the 65 years olds into a nice fenced in area in case they “Catch It” and need to be protected? And suicide… most commonly caused by depression…to ensure no depressed person makes this choice, instead of handing out Lexapro to every overworked and underappreciated mom out there, maybe instead we should put every depressed person in the US in a nice, padded room? Ummmm, I think we’re gonna need a bigger boat…. er, room.
I can live without smoking, drinking, fatty foods, stress, etc., but is that really living. Sounds like a living hell. Similar to what we are doing today. We are locking down the world. We are locking down our children. We are locking down our businesses and our neighbor’s businesses. We are locking down our lives. Almost like we have forgotten that life is short, and any day could be our last. I don’t want to live a life without vices, and I don’t want to live a life trapped in a bubble, in a mask, in the 4-walls of my home. And I won’t.
Now, before all you folks that have been affected by COVID jump my ass, I get that COVID can suck… I get that it can be dangerous. That is not my point. My point isn’t that COVID is not dangerous, my point is everything in life can be dangerous and we should be able to make our own choices on how to safely navigate those risks. Not through government-mandates.
We are being led by fear, and the scariest part to me is how many people out there are begging for these restrictions.
Let me close with this question for my restriction-loving friends: how do you prioritize what types of deaths are important enough to restrict our freedoms? Automobile? Alcohol? Obesity-related? Domestic Violence? Cancer? Suicide?
Because right now, I’m really struggling to understand your rationale.